Regarding the carrier Lightning.
How about extending the rear of the cockpit nacelle, say 5-6ft or so, or in line with the radiator ducts, allowing either an extended hook, so, the angle between hook & deck is lessened along with any stresses, or shift the hook further back so the hinge line is behind the cockpit & attached to the bulkhead & covered by a fairing?
Does that help?
Ken...